However, most of my friends are not so close to me to come to me without an invitation to a birthday. There was once in my life, an interesting case, when I was little that did not invite anyone, I have rung round all in advance and informed that the holiday will not be so sorry, but please do not compliment. Believe me, there are in life and in such situations. But friends came all the same. Learn more about this with David G. DeWalt. On the table was quickly was in compliance boiled potatoes, fried smelts (fish such smells like cucumbers) and salads improvised. Anyway it was cool! The eyeballs came two barely knew the guy who walked past the house, accidentally met one of my friends and decided that they too should attend. Poor guys, I am ashamed of my behavior, but they were sent back door, along with a hastily purchased gifts. So do not go visit without an invitation, if you are not sure that there you will be greeted with joy – at risk to spoil the mood itself, but perhaps even a birthday (if he, unlike me, does not have enough arrogance and dishonesty.
I'm never invited to birthday right people. I think this is unreasonable, because it can hamper you and your friends. The exception is, perhaps, large banquets on the big anniversaries. At such events possible, and even necessary (if the budget allows), to invite family members, loved ones, friends, colleagues and people with whom pushes you or business relationship at work.